Dr. David
John Kreis, Jr.
(AUGUST 10, 1951 - OCTOBER 8,
1989)
I'm a historian---and as a historian, I have
always been struck by the number of great men
whose lives have left an indelible mark on the
temper of their own age. These great men---
knowledgeable and virtuous men---were men of
achievement and accomplishment. Directly and
perhaps sometimes indirectly, some men, by the
examples set through their lives, have stood as
eternal symbols for other men---they have stood
as brilliant torches of light in a proud
procession of human enlightenment. We are
gathered here today---family and friends---not to
mourn or grieve the loss of one so dear to us as
was Davey---but to praise him, to eulogize him
for the vast achievements he most certainly
attained. To list his many accomplishments would
take me far too long to enumerate---and it would
take me away from what it is I really want to
say---it would take me away from what I truly
feel in my mind and in my heart.
Great men, their actions exemplary in the eyes
of all of us---men who have embodied the
classical principles of right action and
virtue---these men demand praise. They are the
men who have set examples for all of us. They are
never forgotten. They stand forever admired and
revered as paradigms, as models of fairness,
justice, honesty, duty, service and morality. The
example which my dear brother Davey set for me
throughout his fruitful and prosperous life, will
neither be forgotten nor abandoned. His spirit
will reside within me forever and beyond. A
timeless spirit, Davey reached out his hands and
certainly touched my soul. Davey was a champion
among men.
So many memories---fond memories, of Davey and
I as children. He was the big brother, the
example, he was my moral instructor. These
memories haunt me now but in an odd way, they
fill me with peace and comfort. I clearly
remember one Christmas Eve---Davey was ten years
old and I was seven. We were playing
"Monopoly" in the room we shared as
children. We were staying up late with the hope
of seeing Santa Claus. I don't know how it
happened but I distinctly remember asking Davey
that most typical of childhood
questions---"what do you want to be?"
Davey showed no signs of hesitation---"I
want to be a doctor." For more than
twenty-five years I watched as Davey went about
fulfilling this dream of his youth. A singular
purpose seemed to motivate him---it literally
possessed him. More than anyone else that I have
known, Davey set out to achieve his goal. In that
twenty-five years, Davey proved his excellence as
an athlete and a scholar. At Hopkins, he earned
ten varsity letters, he served on the student
council numerous times and was honored as the
senior who had done the most for his school. His
achievements brought him to Harvard College where
he continued to excel as an athlete and scholar.
His devotion to his own excellence resulted in
his graduation, magna cum laude, the Harvard
Class of 1973. Davey went on to Yale Medical
School to obtain his medical degree and then
served a residency in surgery where he
specialized in the care and management of the
trauma patient. Behind these many achievements
was a singular purpose---a sound and profound
motivation brought him the rewards he so dearly
deserved. But Davey's motivation went beyond the
confines of what Gary Trudeau once called
"the Student-Athlete." This same
singularity of purpose also made Davey an
exemplary husband to his wife Kris and father to
his daughters Kelly and Sandy. This moral quality
also made Davey a devoted son to his mother and
father. In all ways and at all times, Davey
carried himself to achieve his self-assigned
goals.
The motivation which carried Davey to achieve
and accomplish was made manifest in a speech he
gave as a senior at Hopkins. This was in 1969---a
year marking the end of a decade which saw the
United States torn by civil and political strife.
Some seniors spoke out against the war in
Vietnam, others extolled the merits of civil
rights, still others entertained the audience of
three hundred. But Davey's speech was something
entirely different---it was lofty, philosophical
and full of moral insight. Davey imagined he was
somewhere in space and was walking down a
dimly-lit path. On this celestial avenue, Davey
met three men---three great men---Jesus Christ,
the Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher Marcus
Aurelius and Thomas Jefferson. Davey spoke to
each of these three men and from them gained
intense moral insight. The message was clear:
"A man should BE upright,
not KEPT upright." The one
thing which has always struck me as an essential
part of Davey's life was his high ethical
standards, his moral rectitude. Above all, Davey
had a keen sense of right and wrong, of good and
of evil. The ethical quality of Jesus Christ, the
quality of leadership and Stoic perseverance of
Marcus Aurelius, and the translation of these
moral precepts for the modern age by
Jefferson---Davey understood without reservation.
I believe that when that most noble Athenian
Socrates asked "what is the good
life?"---"what is virtue?"---Davey
was there, listening to these words carefully.
Davey not only understood these moral
lessons---he embraced them with the totality of
his heart and his mind. The virtuous life and
Davey's life were one and the same thing. His
moral rectitude, I think, was what made Davey the
sort of man he was. We can all look to Davey's
many solid achievements as well as his important
contributions to the well-being of all
mankind---he was certainly a man of excellence
and distinction. But when we look inward---to the
child of the man---I think we find a moral
sanctity, a moral excellence, a moral integrity
perhaps unmatched in his own generation. Here was
a man---let us praise him in his glory.
I think I have said enough. We shall all
remember Davey---this is the way with all great
men in history. Let us not mourn the passing of
our Davey, our champion of ethical principles,
our virtuous man---a great man! Let us instead
praise and honor him as all great men have been
praised throughout time. In this way his spirit
of excellence and unmatched moral standards will
live through us and guide us---a brilliant and
forever shining star.
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